Anytime Joey. It is great to get together with guys that enjoy the same hobby. There are guys doing it by you, but most don't admit it. Hit a local hobby shop, and BS with the people there. Maybe they know a group of guys?
I hear you bud. I used to live in Bayonne, and would run into that problem. Since I have moved to Matawan, knock on wood, no problems. I am trying to plan to get out to LI with MonsterMan and run on the 15th. If you want to make a day of it?